You can keep moving without also attempting. And that means you do.

Even while you confide in a few buddies and nearest and dearest. And try to avoid earnestly hiding your bisexuality in really specific circumstances. And sometimes accessorize with bi pride colors or a rainbow, wondering having a simmering, hopeful excitement whether anybody might notice perhaps also provide an once you understand glance or a smile of solidarity. Also you still pass basically everywhere to basically everyone as you do those things.

Which is easier.

Perhaps perhaps maybe Not easier when you look at the feeling that it seems right, and even just like it did prior to. Not really when you look at the sense so it’s effortless, given that it not any longer is.

But passing is a lot easier when you look at the feeling you are aware how exactly to do so. The components of you that now require hiding are nevertheless accustomed maybe perhaps not being seen. They still feel safe away from view. Antsy perhaps, and sporadically frustrated. But safe, at the least.

Perhaps maybe Not moving would require much more work, wouldn’t it? Choices you don’t quite learn how to make about who to share with and exactly how to act. Conversations you don’t quite learn how to have exactly how you realize and why now so exactly exactly exactly what.

Moving calls for none of this. Simply the periodic catching of the tongue.

Plus it also permits small items of truth to here slip out and here. Key, somewhat thrilling checking of containers on types. Outwardly casual statements of one’s identity that is new to that haven’t understood you well or for enough time to learn it is new.